"InLaws Stop Asking Me About Stepson!"
Just stop asking me all the time as to what is stepson's plan for school breaks.....How the hell would I know, his mother has control of him why ask me! Why do I get this question all the time when school break is coming up and because my daughter is going to visit my inlaws. Don't get me wrong but inlaws are the nicest people but sometimes their questions re: stepson just irritates the shit out of me. I just want to tell them to call his mother yourself and find out. How do I deal w/this and what could I say so I don't hurt their feelings....They already know how I feel about this beast!
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Flip the script
Flip the script back to them, Happy Mom.
You could act real sweet and say "Gosh I have noooooooooo idea - Hasn't she told you anything yet?" Summer plans, birthday party, dental surgery, WHATEVER!
Say this over and over for every SS inquiry until they get it.
you make me laugh!!!
I love it!!! I'm really laughing right now...
You crack me up!
You crack me up! If I did that they would be so upset at me...or I should say, "Gee I don't know, you talk to her what did she say?"
Thanks for making me laugh....
-happy mom
I get this all the time. We
I get this all the time. We have no contact with ss unless he is at our house for court ordered visitations. His mom doesn't include us on pretty much anything. ANd the inlawws are always asking me questions that I don't know. They know the situation, so I'm not quite sure what the questions are for. For instance I was talking about my bio sons pediatrician retireing and trying to finds a new doctor. I am asked who does the stepson see. I don't know. It seems like everytime I talk about my son the topic gets reversed to stepson. I think that they are just trying to include him. But I really don't focus on what the ex is doing with her son.
skye22....same here
Yes you are so right on it. That's what the inlaws do to me all the time. Everytime I talk about my daughter they switch the topic and talk about stepson....I have no idea what stepson's plans are but they keep asking me and I give them the same answer "I DON'T KNOW", why can't they just get it and stop asking me the same damn question.
-happy mom