I am so sick of it, When the skids come over all they do is hang out and play video games and make a mess and I am the one who is expected to clean it up. My husband thinks the skids are victims because of all the PA they have to endure. I told my husband we don't make enough money to be disney parents for the skids. I told my husband I wish I could have it as easy as they do, they don't lift a finger by the way neither does my husband! I told him when he gets home he leaves a trail where ever he goes and I am tired of cleaning up after all the kids and skids! I took one day off last week of cleaning and went christmas shopping and I was bitched at because the next day I couldn't keep up with all the cleaning. I clean every sinlge day and I don't normaly have a problem with it because I am a stay at home mom, however I have little ones who make a big mess that I am teaching how to put things away and when the skids come over and make a mess I just get so mad because I am the bad guy who has to tell them to put the stuff away. I am so sick of my husband playing the victim because I bitch about him and his kids all the time. I really do and I am starting to hate my husband! He doesn't communicate, he just gets siilent and says maybe we should get divorced. THis time I said okay! I feel like a single parent because my husband acts like a helpless child. How do I tell him to get his head out of his a$$?