As of today, DH talked to SD and she is supposed to be moving in the with the grandparents. I'm assuming it's because both the parents are telling her she needs to get a job and they will dote on her. DH is still insistent that he will sit down with BM and SD to discuss things in two weeks when she's home. At this point, I don't even know what there is to discuss since she's made all of her decisions. I am breathing a lot easier, but still have my guard up. I don't think she will be successful because she has no idea what she wants to do...and she is not a hard worker or go getter.