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Hatecopycats's picture

So ss12 has a conversation with Dh about the sd's ( I'm sure BM put him up to it.

Ok we have had no contact with sd 21 or sd 18 since the older one stopped receiving 800 a month from us and since ss 18 expected me to contribute financially to her graduation party, but it clear I was not invited to the graduation itself.

Anyway, we used to send both the girls money, pay their cell phones and pay car insurance for each , including child support for the two minor boys.
( I should add I was always against this type of entitlement )
So ss12 is telling dh how the girls are struggling so much and don't have money for food and have had their lights shut off in their apartment. ( they are in college and live in an apartment)

I should add neither one of them have jobs and both go to college part time .

Ss12 continue to tell dh how bm, her mom and her brother are now forced to send the girls money every month so they can survive.

Dh says to ss12 " why is it your stepsister who is 15, goes to school full-time , works 30 hours a week , pays her own cell phone bill and half of her insurance doesn't seem to have all these issues. What do you think the difference is between them??"

What the he'll do you think this wacko says!?!?!? " Hatecopycats doesn't love her kids"

Really??? Are you freaking serious?? Ummmm.......how about my daughter wasn't raised to think ANYONEowed her a damn thing, and if you want things in life no one should carry you, you need to WORK.
The world does not revolve around your ass and contrary to what BM tells her girls....YOU TWO are NOT queens in which anyone worships you. Here's a thought SS12........your sister need to get a JOB and a LIFE and fuck off.

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Anon2009's picture

"how about my daughter wasn't raised to think ANYONEowed her a damn thing, and if you want things in life no one should carry you, you need to WORK."

I agree! I had a job at 16 working part-time at one of the local clothing stores in my hometown. My dad also owns a business and I was helping out there a lot too. I still do. I have worked 2 jobs many times in life. I have always felt very important in doing that. I feel as though it helps give me a purpose. SD16 is working a full-time job right now and doing very well in school. I'm very proud of her.

BM, however is 40+ and has never worked a day in her life. She mooches off her parents and the system. Without that assistance, she wouldn't be financially afloat. Before we got custody DH was paying her $1500 a month in CS. It was frustrating, to put it mildly, for me to see that money going to a woman who wasn't even using it to support her kids. She wasn't working, and the kids were in school for 7 hours a day.