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She's done it again!!

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Submitted by hkblanchard on Fri, 08/31/2012 - 3:15pm

Well as luck would have it...BM has done it again...found a way to PISS me off!! She just had to have SS one night extra this week...well I found out why...she pulls up to drop him off in a BRAND NEW CAR, I am talking leather, sunroof, the whole she-bang!! I am fuming!! She calls constantly because she needs her CS early, or she can't afford to keep the lights on, or SS needs medication, but she can pull up in a NEW car...PLEASE!! You would know, today, she text DH asking for her CS...I said not no, but HELL no!! Guess she needs to pay the car note!! She gets an assload of money EVERY month for ONE kid and we have him HALF the time!! I am just venting...I am a good person, and he will not go without, but I am so angry!!

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Submitted by Willow2010 on Fri, 08/31/2012 - 3:20pm

She gets an assload of money EVERY month for ONE kid and we have him HALF the time!!
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That is the most absurd thing I have ever heard!! That should be against the law!

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Submitted by hkblanchard on Fri, 08/31/2012 - 3:30pm

I agree and on top of that...we pay his medical insurance...his medicines, and all his extra curricular activities!!!

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Submitted by StickAFork on Fri, 08/31/2012 - 3:24pm

If she bought a new car, she probably won't have a payment for 4-6 weeks.

Don't give her CS early, and don't pay for extras that are unneccessary. Aside from that, how she spends her money (and, sadly, the CS is considered HERS) is her business after that. Otherwise, it'll make you nucking futs. I had the same reaction when BM showed up in her new car.

May I ask? How much is an "assload" of money?

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Submitted by StickAFork on Fri, 08/31/2012 - 3:32pm

Oh.
Gotcha.

We always paid more than that for one kid... I guess now I feel worse about it. Wink

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Submitted by Pinki3663 on Fri, 08/31/2012 - 3:26pm

my SO is still going through his divorce and gets late notices almost every month for the mortgage. this last time she hadn't paid in almost six months! His CS alone covers the mortgage and then some! She hasn't bought a new car yet..but I am waiting for it. Haha I actually hope she does and I hope I get to see it repossessed as well!

You can at least look forward to that..stop giving extras. Especially if she expects those extras, she'll call one day needing the money to cover the car payment and is hit with a big fat "NO" then you all can watch her scramble!

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Submitted by hkblanchard on Fri, 08/31/2012 - 3:33pm

These two have been divorced for a while and my DH is still watching things pop up that he had no clue about....he couldn't renew his vehicle registration because he had 4 flags from 2009 where she didn't pay the insurance on his truck because she couldn't afford both...while he was working offshore!! A renewal that should have costed $40 costed over $300 after all the fines...watch out sista...make sure he covers ALL his bases!!

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Submitted by Imgoingtoscream on Fri, 08/31/2012 - 3:59pm

My husband's BM hears about new things that we have bought from her kids and goes out and tries to buy bigger and better. It doesn't bother me any more. I was jealous of her a little at first because DH and I were struggling partly because we were paying her so much and she was living in a huge house, getting her nails done, and hair done her then husband bought her a car for her bday etc. Well funny enough she talks about karma all the time and how it will bite the people that did her wrong. She ended up divorced living in a dump, with a used broke-ass car, and no money. Needless to say I'm no longer jealous. We have two beautiful homes, new cars, and more importantly can finally afford to do more for our kids. How's that for karma bitch? Blum 3