Christmas Schedule....always a stressful time
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My boyfriend has been separated for almost 4 years from the BM. Therefore the xmas scheudle is not new, yet every year we have my SS (9) for xmas eve and xmas morning BM has to kick up a huge fuss. We alternate xmas eve and xmas morning with xmas day afternoon and evening and boxing day every year. Yet now BM is saying that we are ruining her plans and SS's by not letting him come home early xmas day. When is she going to get used to the schedule, it's in the court order! Then to top it all off she now says she won't send SS's "winterwear" everytime he comes to visit and that we have to buy a set of stuff for our house. We literally live 3 minutes away from her....what is the big deal?!?!? Once again dealing with the mind of a child, no reasoning with her at all. FRUSTRATING!
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Ditto!!
Ditto!!
Now because BM isn't getting
Now because BM isn't getting her way regarding xmas schedule, my SO will not listen to her demands via email, she is emailing these big long essays where she dredges up all sorts of stuff and then twists it around to make it work for her. She seems to have forgotten how much she harassed me for years through Facebook....stealing pics from out sites (before we locked her out) and writing very nasty comments under them, constantly calling me a bad Mom....etc, etc....you know what I'm talking about...I wish she would just shut up, got over herself and take her freaking meds!!!!!
oh, there is no point in
oh, there is no point in reasoning with a moron. buy the clothes and live in peace. she's stupid.
my kids were able to reason with their BD about Christmas because their little brother is 9 and he lives with me DH. its the first time in years he's been negotiable. weird feelin really.