I've been dating my bf for over a year now. And about 3 months ago his 3 year daughter came to live with us because her BM has a lot of issues. My bf left his daughter with his grandparents for 8 months while he came here to look for a new job, and to better his life. After a long battle with court he got custody of her, well she still stayed with her grandparents, because she needed to see her mom for 2 weeks and her dad for 2 weeks, since her mom lives 8 hours away, he thought this was best. When her mom had issues she came to live with us in our apartment. He told me that for me to get used to it, she would be here 2 weeks then there 2 weeks. Well this didn't happen, and ever since she's been here me and my bf have been fighting like crazy. Her mom is now here for court stuff. And my bf's daughter gets to see her mother once a week for 2 hours. And every time she comes back she is a little monster. Last week after she saw her mom me and my bf took her to this indoor playground she loves, and she refused to play. All she kept saying was how she wanted to go home. When I make dinner she shoves the plate and says she doesn't like it even if she hasn't tried it. Her dad doesn't do anything! She only eats if her dad cooks or if she's at daycare. Every night I cook and she tells me how disgusting my food is. I made chili one night she took a bite and spit it all over the floor, her dad put her in timeout. She doesn't listen to me, ever. When she first moved in she was hitting my animals, I have 2 cats and a dog. Her dad finally got her to stop that. But she makes sure to tell me how much she doesn't like me at least every 10 minutes. She tells me to move out, I know she's only 3 but I can't take it and I can't take anymore people telling me "shes's only 3"! Last week, she saw me kissing her dad, and a few minutes later, I walked by the bathroom and she had her pants around her knees and was squatted over the bathroom rug peeing on it. She told her dad it was because she was mad at me, and all he said was that if she did it again, he'd be very mad. SERIOUSLY!!! She needed a timeout or something! This isn't the first time this has happened either. She also throws fits if she doesn't want to put her clothes on. She can put them on by herself, but if her dad is doing something with me, she starts screaming and crying. And he doesn't say anything about it, he just goes and puts her clothes on for her. I don't know what to do, no one I know has ever been in a situation like this. I just needed to vent, because I feel like I'm going insane. I can't stand to be around her. She pisses me off.