SD is 2 1/2 and yes I still love her. But I do not like her lately. I don't know if it is because of all the horror stories I've read on here, or I'm just getting fed up with the brat phase she is going through or what but I can not stand her whining for one more second.

Well, I get up this morning with her (already irritated because SO would not wake up) and I go to change her diaper and she is SOAKED through EVERYTHING. I feel like my OWN blood childs bodily fluids would gross me out but this child is not my blood and I was gagging over the smell of piss. So I got her out of her wet PJs and stuck eveything in the wash...extra annoyed because I just washed all her bedding. awesome. SO is still in bed.

I come upstairs to grab SD and put her in the tub (she is COVERED in PISS) and I find her in my ROOM in my BED cuddling with SO, who is conviently now awake and having a tickle cuddle session.

So I irrationally snap at him that that is OUR space and SD does not need to be in our bed, not too mention now I have to wash OUR bedding too because she just got piss all over it...to which he replies:

You let your nasty dog on the bed and SHE is always covered in SHIT and PISS too!

To which I had no response other than, no, my dog does not roll around in her own piss and shit...she is a clean dog and that is totally different.

SO told me to "go somewhere" because I am obviously pissed off for "god knows why".

Well yes, I am pissed off. I'm not entirely sure why other than I now have a ton of laundry to do...AGAIN and SD was in my bed covered in piss and SO gets to have fun tickle time instead of doing all the bullshit parenting stuff that I get stuck with, and SD was in my bed that I just fornicated in last night and that is gross.

Someone talk me through this please.