so ss12's uncle just called (nice guy) he says "so bm is staying in toronto for a few more days" what?? he wanted to take the boys skiing tmrw but the house is locked up with all the ski stuff and wants to know what to do...already fusterated i tell him not my problem this is her week not sure why they are even here! he says i was wondering what was going on. so i hang up with him call the bf - which was pointless - he is so ladeeda about it, which pisses me off more! this ex of his is samrt she got him to take them for the weekend and then takes off b/c what are we going to do about it - leave them out in the cold! then she stays in toronto knowing that the rotation starts again in a couple days, so we will have them for another week! so in 3 weeks she has seen them for two days (well nights b/c they were at school)

sometimes i dont mind that they are here - but i just dont understand why we have them all the time and have to pay her full support. i feel like he is helping her out while i have to ay for everything for our son and she gets a break every other week - and he gets a free babysitter. yet when i want to go out for a break he makes me feel guilty!