bf is separated and visiting daughter who lives in home country(philippines) for a month... first demand... he goes out(movies,malls) with kid and ex-wife to show daughter there's still essence of being a family. meaning... he's trying to beat what ex-wife's bf is doing and feels that he's being replaced as a father. second demand, we should lessen our calling and texting one another coz he said its his vacation(i live in the philippines too, i just visit him in the US very often) and he needs time(space) for himself to do his own stuff. I never demanded for him to see me everyday. coz he stays 3 hours away from where i live. the only thing i was asking for is for him to call me up sometimes like just what he did in the past 10 months that we're together. he changed that all of a sudden. now he admits that he's being selfish because he's given up everything before and now he's not ready to give up anything. he waited ten months to tell me that. he said he would only become unselfish when he feels it would be time for him to settle down. we have no plans yet on marrying but i felt that i'm wasting my time on him. he still texts and calls me everyday and tells me that he really loves me and everything will be back to how it was before when he goes back to the states. let me know your view on this one. thanks.