SS15 is so bad that our bio son did not want SS15 to go to practice to watch him because even the 5 yo knows that means that his big brother will learn the moves and one try them on him (which a 15 yo shouldn't do to a 5 yo because they could hurt them) and will say he can do it better. But sure enough DH said if he wants to go watch you, he will get to go...so off the three went my son crying because he did not want his big bro to go for the above mentioned reasons and because my son was desperately craving some alone time with dad, some time to be in the spotlight. yeah my hubby doesn't get the letting the kids do thier own sport to shine in thier own talent thing...he wants all football and all baseball players...but I want my boys to pick to try a little of what they want then pick what they like the most with no pressure from dad to be like big brother...
Maybe my boys should be dancers...SS15 would never do it but then I would probably have SD15 want to get back into it and say she was better at than they are...she pulls that crap too. Just did it last weekend when MIL was trying to compliment my son on his rhythm when he was dancing to a music video...SD15 immediately shot her compliment down by saying "it will be a long time before he gets good" this coming from the most ungraceful ballerina I have ever seen whom quit dancing because she could stand practicing harder to be better...
It just pisses me off that these two are such glory hogs that they can not stand when another sibling gets attention and praise...they even do this with thier cousins...they are just plain jealous and self centered not just because they are 15 because they have always been this way, they are special they are gods gift to human kind, they are twins which makes you double special and thier parents are divorced so that makes them extra special...so the world should revolve around them (and pretty much does until I put my foot down here and there)