OH my for the last 10 years we have all been upset when BM puts the kdis in the middle to work her own agenda and I just got another phone call from SD15 infroming me that my in laws are still trying to use my step kids to get thier way for Christmas plans. In october we all sat down with the inlaws to plan Christmas and picked the weekend before and that we would host it. Well more inlaws like my DH's aunts and uncles are now getting together the 27th.

Ok I know something about my MIL because my mom and her are best friends that my DH does not know yet and its killing me. I keep encouraging him to stop by her house for this and that so she can tell him the news. She is moving 2 hours away and I think my hubby will freak. He has already freaked that his siblings all ditched town and hate to come back for visits, he's going to go through the roof when he finds out that his mother is moving. He already hates that she doesn't make the effort to see us when she lives two blocks away unless she wants something...

Having a Nice weekend at home. The step kids are with thier BM helping her after surgery. DH is being super kind to me after his grumpy mood all week. We are housecleaning...AND HE IS HELPING ALOT!!! The lice seems to be gone from every ones heads, and so has the itching...our hair was so nit free we got our hair cut. I finally got to cut off enough to donate to locks of love in memory of a cousing, in honor of SD surviving cancer and in support of an aunt fighting cancer right now.

I'm entertaining myself with some evil demise and I'm trying to think of solutions to my problem right now grumpy DH and the type of hubby and father he is becoming with his lack of wisdom and lack of patients and lack of effort, and just plain I dont care attitude about life right now....Oh wow I just got an idea. The wicked step mom is on to something but actually on to a master plan to help my husband be a better father...