My situatiion is that my husband has one child with his ex wife and it has been four years approx. since they divorced and we have been dating for a few years and have been married for a few months. The BM is a very contolling person and she likes to constantly be in our lives and have her finger in everything we do (Well she trys). She has re married as well and I stupidly thought that things would get better but they have only gotten worse. For a while I was the one speaking directly with her because BM and BF could not talk without arguing, and things were going ok until she started using every conversation about the child as a way to try and convince me that my husband was a jerk and a bad father. So I stopped listening to her rants and started hanging up and being short which she said was me being "hostile" and that she could not talk to me anymore. And that I was causing my stepdaughter pain becasue she could sense the hosility, which is not true. Me and my stepdaughter have a great relationship. Well I could care less the BM opinions of me, but I'm starting to worry that she has something up her sleeve. She is always in contact with her lawyer and she sent the BF a certified letter saying that we should go to post divorce counseling and saying that I was hostile and its causing their daughter so much pain. We were going to respond to her letter, but was told by his mother not to because she was worried that the BM might be building some kind of case against me. When people are around especially her new husband she acts like a victim, like we are the ones harrassing her. Then when hes out of town at work or wherever we get continous phone calls and harrassing messages. Im just wondering is there anything that she could do legally to me that would stop me from being able to see my step daughter? I'm really worried becasue she has done many things since I have known her that are pretty out there and I think that she may be capable of mcuh more.