DSO and I are at work. SD is with BM. SD has final tourney softball game tonite and then leave for the beach on Monday.
I get a txt convo from SD:
SD-my chest hurts when I breathe in and we are at ER with some random friend of BMs, can I get checked.
Me-have to ask Dad, not my decision.
SD-he hasn't txted back. (DSO isn't even supposed to have his phone at work but can sneak txts).
Me-when did you start hurting.
SD-A WEEK AGO.
Me-if he doesn't answer, Mom will have to use her best judgement...that is an oxymoron if I ever said one.

My first thought is that BM is planning on doing something tonite that SD wants to be there for and not go to her game.

I am not making that call while she is with her bitch Mother. If SD had been with me, then yes, I make the call after consulting with DSO. I don't just randomly run any kids to the ER just because. There was a lot I would have liked to say to her, but there is no point bc BM will read it and pull her I'm the Mother card anyway.

My problem. In the past week, SD has played 2 games. Spent most of the week at the twins house and never once complained about her chest hurting.
A month ago, SD sprained her ankle and BM offered to take her to doctor. DSO has CHIP insurance. It isn't free and has copays depending on medical facility and scripts. DSO keeps the med card bc he is primary. He told her to tell her Mom (wiht the sprained ankle) that she needed to go to our clinic and then tell them to just bill him for copay. BM takes her to ER with no insurance card...still haven't seen the bill and if BM gets it, she can't/won't pay it.

DSO was absolutely pissed when she went to ER last time. Today is the last day of work before vacation and he is going to be pissed the minute he leaves work.

Some days I really like SD. I have been trying extra hard to not let my feelings come through and to make an effort with her. One txt from SD and it just blows it all out of the water.