how do I handle this?
I just found out that I have to work Saturday the 29th which I really dont mind because its SD weekend so i dont mind not being there. But my BF was told by one of my coworkers that I had to work and he said "im not staying with the kids" and the reason why he says this is because the last time he stayed with both of them they got over big time and we got into a big fight because he wants to blame or see that everyone elses kids do wrong but not his daughter. So I sent him and email and told him that I have to work and not to worry about watching the kids because I will make sure that my son goes somewhere else so that he doesnt bother him or his daughter. This frustrates me so much. i stay with both of them when he works and I dont let them get over on me. Im so frustrated i just want to cry!!!!!
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If I were you, I would never
If I were you, I would never watch his daughter ever again. He can't handle your son but you're supposed to handle his daughter? I don't think so....
Inside every cynical person, there is a disappointed idealist. - George Carlin
I agree with Serendipity
"To Thine Own Self Be True" William Shakesphere
Let him get a sitter himself. What's good for the goose....
On a positive note, you're not married to this man. You are forewarned.
I agree as well
he cannot expect you to stay with his kids if he feels he does not have to stay with yours. I would make sure that he knows that you will NOT be sitting with his little princess when he is at work.
Are you sure that you want
Are you sure that you want to stay with a guy who will not watch your child. That is crazy what happens if you two get married? I have some problems with my stepson but I would always watch him. I love him, I have never heard of such a thing. GOOD LUCK
He claims that the Kids. His
He claims that the Kids. His Own daughter and my son do not listen to him. I explained to him that is because they take you as a joke because you give them whatever they want and your always joking around with them. So great its ok for me to stay with them because they respect me but he cant stay with them because they get over on him... LUCKY ME
I agree....
I agree with the others...I would make child care arrangements for my own child so that BF doesn't watch your child when you have to work or for any reason...In return, I would never lift a finger to do anything for or supervise his kid ever again...