Im going to try and explain this in the best way possible!!!
Ok there is a baby shower coming up and Bf and I are invited. But so is BM! now we never go to anything that BM goes to she was with BF for 15 years and I feel like no matter what she will be family and I wont so if there was any drama i will not have anyone to back me up. Well anyway BM is trying to do some sneaky shit and she doesnt want me or BF to know that she is going to this baby shower. Sounds like she is trying to plan something. I dont like to make a scene cause i am not that type of person and I refuse to make a show or disrespect anyones party or anything. So please ladies what should I do?????
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Ignore her.
"To Thine Own Self Be True" William Shakesphere
Let me tell you what happened to me after my divorce from my first husband.
I was working at an Savings & loan, and signed up to take computer classes at night. This was about 8 months after my divorce-I was married for 17 years-ex had already remarried, a woman he was cheating on me with. And there were many many affairs during our marriage.
Anyway, first night of class. I go in-OMG-there's ex's new wife!
Class starts-young male teacher, about 12 students. Another instructor comes in to help...OHG-it's one of the women ex cheated on me with!
So, out of a classroom of 14 (12 students, 2 instructors) there were 3 males - and 11 females, me included. Out of the 11 females, my ex had slept with 3 of us!
Trust me, I made sure I looked my best every class nite (did a good job of it-the male instructor asked me out!). I also received a 4.0 grade. And you all know me-I speak up. Did that in class, too. Meanwhile, the "new" wife sat like a mouse, afraid to squeak
wow bewitched
ur ex was a man whore
"Given the right reasons and the right two people, marriage is a wonderful way of experiencing your life."
~the late great George Carlin
lol
That's awesome, BW! Go you. :)!!!!!!!!!!
I agree though. Go... and don't even acknowledge her.
I've been in the same room with BM on numerous occasions... and it's hard to ignore her loud manly voice and it's hard to keep myself from ripping her ugly face off... but it can be done!
Trust.
Just go in there and have fun! She's not worth your attention.
go
go w DH, look great, walk in w ur head held high and sit back and watch and she most likely makes an ass of herself by pulling some stupid stunt. u dont have to do anything bc she will take care of it for u!
"Given the right reasons and the right two people, marriage is a wonderful way of experiencing your life."
~the late great George Carlin
bella-what do you mean "was"
"To Thine Own Self Be True" William Shakesphere
The phrase, dear girl is my ex is a man whore. Bless her heart, the new wife got exactly what she deserves.
And, itwillgetbetter, go. Look awesome. Let your attitude say to BM-if you don't like me being here, you can kiss my gorgeous a$$!
i guess i was thinking "WAS"
bc hes in ur past!
good for her that he still IS!
"Given the right reasons and the right two people, marriage is a wonderful way of experiencing your life."
~the late great George Carlin
Who is it for?
I mean if it is someone that you are not close to or don't know that well I would just skip it if BM is going to be there. If it is a family member or a good friend then I would go and ignore BM completely. I'm sure though that she will SLITHER up to talk to your DH and are you going to be okay with that? From reading you posts I know you have had it with this woman.
Bewitched - it sure sounds like your ex gets around. For school I would have sat there and acted just like you did as well. Talk about having the last laugh.
Im not ok with her coming up
Im not ok with her coming up to talk to me or BF. I cant stand the women for everything that she has put my BF through. Shes slick. And now I find out that everyone was sitting in the ICU waiting room talking about me and BF. His BM and HIS FAMILY sitting there just talking crap about how we have to except the fact that we are going to be a mutual parties and have mutual friends... And i just dont agree with this at all. i do not want to share friends with BM. And Im not asking BF's family to eliminate her completely all im asking is dont try to be sneaky and set up something where we are going to bump heads because I honestly cant stand the woman.