Makes me want to throw up!!!
Ok Sd came over the day before yesterday and I needed to leave the house I coudnt take it anymore. First BF was eating a chicken nugget and she wanted some so BF went to give it to her for her to hold it and SD didnt want it like that she wanted him to feed it to her... Then she goes to the kitchen and tells BF guess what mommy threw up this morning... That just made me sick to my stomach. This little girl listens to all adult conversations and brings back everything to our home. SD told her father that someone was pregnant and he asked her does she know who the baby daddy is?? Is this the proper way to talk to a 9 year old girl? Should she be bringing back information.. I dont want to know! her mother is not my business or BF's business anymore.. My son told me that his dad is letting his hair grow so he can get braids and i said to him why are you telling me for I dont need to know that. But my son told me whispering in front of BF so he must know that it would bother BF to hear that. So whats SD excuse she is the same age as my son... Does she do it on purpose?
- Itwillgetbetter's blog
- Log in or register to post comments
Comments
Both DH and I ignore and
Both DH and I ignore and barely acknowledge the things that the SDS' say about their BM - we don't give a rat's ass if that TROLL made a new friend....lol
Inside every cynical person, there is a disappointed idealist. - George Carlin
we tell SD
we dont care and dont talk about BM here! i know, i know, its bad but whatever.
"Given the right reasons and the right two people, marriage is a wonderful way of experiencing your life."
~the late great George Carlin
Trust me. Been there.
It's sickening how much these kids get away with.
My DH has a bad problem talking about adult stuff in front of SD8. Sometimes he doesn't watch his mouth... and granted, SD8 doesn't repeat any of what he says in front of us, but I wouldn't doubt that she goes to her mom and tells her everything.
OMG
Do we have the same SD??? Mine does the same thing. My husband lets things go sometimes that he shouldn't. Says bad things about BM, but you know you only got part of it right. SD repeats the bad talk BUT she says YOU said it, not her father.
My SD8 tells BM what my husbands says but says I said it. So BM texts him that I am so evil! So we know lies are still flying.
I pray one day she either realizes and apologizes for her mistakes or if not she gets the same back to her.
I always hated that
when my Sds would do that when they were younger. Somehow sugarmama always knew everything I did. Right down to how many times a day I used the bathroom......
I know that TROLL hears
I know that TROLL hears about everything that goes on at our house but the girls lips are sealed when they are with us!!
Inside every cynical person, there is a disappointed idealist. - George Carlin
Skids say "mama said, mama said, mama said"
Sooooo much that the other day we were in the car listening to Lenny Kravitz and when the song "Mama Said" came on I told SD9, "This is ya'lls song." She said, "Why?" I said, "Cause you say it enough."
Actually since we've gotten custody, it's slacked off a lot, because every time they come up with "Mama said," I tell them "That's awesome! But mama ain't here. It's what stepmasochist says that goes here."
I know its probably wrong, but I even went as far to tell them last week when they had a "Mama wants me to bring such and such to her house." I've told them don't worry about it because even though mama went to the store and got it, SHE didn't pay for it.
I figured I'd hear about that one, but funny enough, the next time they returned from mama's house they came back with a few things I had bought them that had been missing.
I think she's worried about not paying CS.
oooh i hate that one too!
my mama does this and my mama and i went here and my mama has this...
I DONT FREAKIN CARE ABOUT UR MAMA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
"Given the right reasons and the right two people, marriage is a wonderful way of experiencing your life."
~the late great George Carlin
We get it too
"mama says" is a constant refrain during deprogramming. I usually say "I don't care!" or "Do you have an opinion or your own?" or "she's not here!"
Of course, "Mama says" a lot of really wrong crap. Don't get me started on "Mama says people who drive minivans are white trash!" Yeah, that'd be my parents. SD got slapped down hard for that one - DH told her, "A lot of people think having a baby when you're not married makes you trash," which made her really think because that's what mama DID.
~Trish
ooohhhh SNAP!!!!
thats a good one! BM is the epitome of WT, im afraid. heres to hoping SD doesnt turn out just like her...oh wait, at 3 she already is. shit. im screwed.
"Given the right reasons and the right two people, marriage is a wonderful way of experiencing your life."
~the late great George Carlin
What we would really like to say
is your mama's a b**ch! But darn we can't!
LOL!!! I know, right? I
LOL!!! I know, right? I would LOVE to tell "SS" what I think of his mom! And all the crap she's done. Maybe when he's an adult...teehee. I absolutley loved when he found out we pay his mom cs and he asked if she paid DH when he lived with him & we got to say NO, but she was supposed to LOL We told him she couldn't afford to from JAIL (ok we left out the from jail part). He didn't say anything.
"Nobody will ever win the battle of the sexes. There's too much fraternizing with the enemy"