Well low and behold-I knew I had a good ss underneath! I was ready for a fight this morning when I told him I was coming to the school to pick up his report card(so it doesn't get lost in his bm car again) and he didn't even frown. He said 'Ok, maybe I will see you there.' I think I almost peed myself. I also took my sd to get her ears pierced yesterday. She didn't even flinch a bit! I couldn't believe it. But then I could literally watch the color drain from her face after it was done! She is so cute! Sometimes I need things like to remind me how much I love them! They are good kids no matter what and can't help what thier bm and bgm are trying to get them to do and say!