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The same talk over again

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So I sat my skids down the other night and tried to talk to them. I told them that shit was gonna change around here. I am done being thier slave and that I am sick of thier laziness passing onto my bd. I will no longer be afraid to enforce the chores and them picking up after themselves. I told them they will punished if they do not do their chores and I don't care what they tell their bm or bgm. I reminded them that I am the adult and if they don't choose to help out they will deal with the aftermath. We will see how it goes!

Thankful!

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So last night went good! Skids were outside waiting when thier bm pulled up. They got right into the car and left. I didn't have to see her in my house. Now waiting to see what happens when she brings them back tom nite!

Hoping

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So I told my skids to make sure that thier stuff was packed last night so all they had to do was get off the bus today and grab thier stuff for their bm who will be picking them up after school. Usaully, she is here a couple minutes after they get off the bus. I told them they could get thier stuff and go right out and wait for her. I tell my husband this when he gets home and he gives me a funny look and says he feels bad that they have to wait out in the cold for her. For Christ sake they play out in the snow-they wait out in for the school bus!

Worried

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So my skids are going to thier bm's this weekend. they both went to the school nurse and she reported that my sd no longer had head lice and I was soooo happy to hear that. Now, I am still going thru her hair twice a day just to be on the safe side and she has one more treatment I am going to do tom night. But then she has to go to her bm's and I want to make sure her bm will also do what needs to be done. What I am really nervouse about is what if she comes back with them again? What if she did get them her bm's house? I wonder if my husband will really do something about it.

Goodmorning!

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Well low and behold-I knew I had a good ss underneath! I was ready for a fight this morning when I told him I was coming to the school to pick up his report card(so it doesn't get lost in his bm car again) and he didn't even frown. He said 'Ok, maybe I will see you there.' I think I almost peed myself. I also took my sd to get her ears pierced yesterday. She didn't even flinch a bit! I couldn't believe it. But then I could literally watch the color drain from her face after it was done! She is so cute! Sometimes I need things like to remind me how much I love them!

Finally on the same page!

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So my skids are due to see thier bm next weekend. I have spent the last three days trying to get rid of my sd's head lice and I think I got it pretty good. I will spend the rest of the week making sure of this fact. I spoke to my husband and asked him what he planned to do if she came home from bm with them again. He said he would put a stop to them going over there for awhile. I told him that is great. I might need a break but it will not be at thier expense! I would rather have them here with me all of the time then come home covered in flea bites and crawling with head lice!

My Goodness!

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So, I found out on Fri that my sd10 has head lice. I have never had to deal with this before so called around and got some advice while my husband called her bm and let her know9since she had been there the weekend before. Now I was thinking that she didn't get it from thier because my ss12 did not have it. But he thought he should call and let her know since she does have four other children there. So I was talking to my bm about it and actually defending thier bm for once when my mother reminded me that my ss had not gone to his mothers that weekend.

In need of some advice

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Okay, in our old house all three kids had thier own bedrooms. Here they do not. We only have three. So my bd and my sd share a room. The rooms are all pretty small. The only thing my bd has in the shared room is a bed. All of her cloths are in a dresser in my room and all of her toys are in the second living room downstairs which I dubbed as the toy room. There is also a sofa and T.V in this room. Here's the prob. Most of the time I have to keep my bd out of my skids rooms cause they don't want her in there(they both have video game systems in each room).

Just another day of uselass drama...

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So, apperently my sm tried to call me lastnight. After all the messages back and forth that I thought pretty much cleared up how we felt-we decided to take the kids and my wonderful in-laws out to dinner. How dare I! I missed my sm's call so she left me one last message saying I have made it clear how I feel and once again she is done. She deleted from her face book(which is fine with me). How stupid she is going to feel when she finds out I was not here. She does this shit all of the time and we are all so sick of it.

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