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Submitted by JennyBunnyjj on Fri, 02/01/2013 - 8:38pm

Nothing new has really happened. I still can't STAND my step-devil. He continues to lie, steal, and torment my 10 yr old autistic son. Recently he stole from my purse AGAIN. Now i have to keep it locked in a cabinet. I even cut a slit at the bottom on the lining to hide things I dont want him to steal, should he get my purse again. My bedroom stays locked and I STILL have to pick it just to get in. Im SICK of it. The little bastard even stole my cell phone for 2 days. I was at the point of ordering a new one when I found it in his possessions. I was PISSSSSSSSED OFF. Anything he doesn't get his way, he goes into his room with the window open , stands by it and cries and hollers loudly for no reason. I can hear him from the front yard. Im certain he is doing this on purpose. I WISH a neighbor would call the police- PLEASE do, and cps can come and take him off my hands. I even told DH that. The other day I confronted him about stealing from my purse. He ran from me, then I caught him. He was swinging and kicking at me. This is RIDICULOUS. I dont put up with this from the children I bore, nor do they act like this. Why should I put up with this from someone else's child. I made it clear to DH that SS is NOT going to be at home this summer. Last summer was a NIGHTMARE. HE can live at his grandmas for the summer- Im sure i'll be judged- go ahead and judge I guess. My life went from married and mistreated to lonely divorced single and makin it to remarried and MISERABLE-WTF Sad

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Submitted by stepmomto3bioto1 on Fri, 02/01/2013 - 11:05pm

Im so very sorry he gives you such trouble!!!! My deepest sympathies!!! Trust me, Im not even remotely going ti judge you & frankly nobody else on here should either!!!! If they do-- then Id have to seriously question why they are here themselves if their life is so perfect!!! Trust me, their lives are far from perfect if they need to come here-- to a Venting site- & try to act Holier then thou!!!! Just shake them off if they get critical & judgemental!!!

Your VENTING!!! Which is the purpose of this website!!!!

I cant recall how old your SS is? I have a SS11 who tries like the dickens to drive me nuts!!! He does alot of the behaviour you are referring to in this post! Uck!! I truly feel for you!!! My DH just got on board with trying to really straighten things out- as he knows now how fed up I am. Is your DH willing to step up to the plate & try to change things with SS? I truly feel we as SMs are screwed unless our DHs are willing to roll up their true Parenting sleeves & change things & get their rotten kids back in good behaviour!! Its a tough thing but frankly our men (& the PASng BMs) who created these behaviours by not growing a set & teaching (not friending) these kids!!!

Hang in there. Hmm. As a thought. There is a way to easily catch SS stealing from you. There is this powder that you can put on dollar bills. One the bandit picks up & takes it the dye in the powder reacts with the body temp and shows up black on the culprits hands. & it doesnt wash off for a few days worth of handwashings!!! Hehe. Would be easy to prove!! Ha!!

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Submitted by love_my_shichi on Fri, 02/01/2013 - 11:35pm

I wouldn't be able to live like that! You have a right to be upset. Screw that! I would leave eventually.....your DH Needs to get things handled. The kid needs to go to juvinile detention.

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Submitted by hismineandours on Fri, 02/01/2013 - 11:38pm

My ss14 has always been a thief as well. IMO, it has always been an act of aggression on his part. He steals things he has no use for, odd things sometimes, also extremely personal items such as people's underwear. He has been stealing my anties since he was 5, he has stolen my dd15s and also my ds13s underwear. It seems when he gets pissed off its his way of retaliating. He's very vengeful.

Don't blame you for not wanting him for the summer. How can you even monitor something like that? My ss does not live here anymore or even visit. My kids have a right to live without the keyless entry locks we had installed on everyone's doors.

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Submitted by Jsmom on Sat, 02/02/2013 - 7:43am

No judging here...I don't allow my SD16 in my life, DH sees her on his own time for lunch about once a month....She was awful and still does things that just irritate the hell out of me.

He doesn't have to be in your house, if he can not respect the occupants or the house. Easy enough...