So I am tired. And I am not looking forward to the weekend and it’s only Monday. I have to watch the Skids without DH as he has to work….
In addition, the BMs are thick as thieves lately and it’s annoying.

I have had a hunch that BM2’s (SD3’s mom) is in a relationship with another girl she has meet recently……I told DH that I think her knew friend is really her new girlfriend and they are dating. He didn’t think so, but I still had my hunch. Then SD3 says mom’s friend sleeps in mom’s bed with her. So, it was pretty much a no brainer. SD3 tells me that BM2 is also moving new friend in to their house. All of this was confirmed via BM1 - not the BM in the relationship...nice.

Here is the deal: Love is love, I am not concerned this is a woman/woman relationship – and it’s not our business so whatever. If her partner is good to SD3 that’s all we can hope. The part I am annoyed with is that BM2 told BM1 about the girlfriend and everything and not DH – the father of the child. So, he ended up finding out from BM1….wtf. I may be wrong, but when I moved in (long ago, before we were married) DH told BMs so that they would know – not for approval or anything – but just as common curtousy. We never get any respect in return. It’s the same crap when BM2 decided to take SD to BM1 for care without discussing it with DH. It’s like he is just a damn paycheck and part time sitter.

The good thing is we never show emotion about any of it to either BM…we just mind our business and concentrate on the kids only – which annoys them to know end. Ha.