Okay, I've been with my fiance for a year now. He has a one year old who will be two in May. I also have a three year old who will be four in September. I try to treat the both of them the same but her father always makes it seem as though everyone is out to get her. Sure, she makes me sick to my stomatch but I would never hurt her. My all time favorite thing she does is look at you like "bitch please" when you tell her to do any thing. Then she tries to do things to my daughter and come and act like she's the victim. My daughter is very sweet. My daughter won't do any ting to hurt her. Every time I look up she's breaking something. Every time I look up she's hitting my daughter and destroying my flooring or my couch. If I fuss she runs to her daddy crying. She has too much of her mom in her. I really don't like that at all. Her mom is a high school drop out who doesn't want any thing out of life. She will never have any thing not because she doesn't have the ability to get it but because she is okay with having nothing. She's more worried about clubbing and having a different man every month than taking care of her children. Then she has three different children by three different men at the age of twenty-four. Her oldest two fathers aren't around and refuse to take care of them. My fiance is the only one who does any thing for their child. Yet, some how she treats the other two fathers like GODS and him like shit. We get his daughter every four days and every time we get her she's sick. She either has a cold, ear infection, or yeast infection. That doesn't make any sense to me. That isn't good on her system if you ask me. My fiance does every thing in his power to get her better just for us to get her back in four days and be sick again. I think that she could be mistreating the baby but ther's nothing I can do about it. I tell my fiance to just get her. He always brings up the fact he's always working and going to school. That means nothing to me when I have my daughter and I work and go to school as well. I type for days but I'm going to stop for right now.