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Submitted by June on Wed, 07/14/2010 - 8:19pm

Okay so at least I'm on day 6 of my 10 days straight with my two SS 13 & 17.. But I have to say it's killing me. My SS17 hasn't been home hardly at all, out with friends so that's been great. My SS13 has been here non stop. I am just going out of my mind having him here every day after work. The kid is just down right rude sometimes and I don't know why. Dispite the fact that I'm on here bitching all the time, to him I'm very very nice and I hold it all in. When I get home from work he BARELY says hi to me. It's like he moves to a different room if I'm in it. He avoids me like the plague. Just now when his dad came home he was like oh hi dad, how was your day at work? And he just kept talking and talking. I am not new in his life yet he treats me worse then a stranger sometimes. Just kills me that I have to feel this way in my own flippin home. Can NOT wait for this week to be over! I will be drinking some grey goose as my DH pulls out of the driveway to drop them off.

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Submitted by Most Evil on Thu, 07/15/2010 - 5:58am

It is very awkward, to feel unwelcome in your own house. I advise ignoring him back, until he is willing to acknowledge your presence. He sounds like he needs to learn manners and socialization skills, from his parents! So sorry dear, hugs

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Submitted by warrior19 on Thu, 07/15/2010 - 6:02am

It does suck. I feel you pain. My boyfriend's kids are here 24/7 as their mother is deceased. Thank your lucky stars that they are only at your home part time!

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Submitted by burnet on Thu, 07/15/2010 - 10:59am

So typical. SD15 ignores. Does answer when spoken to, but with annoyed voice and as few words as possible(Yes, No, I don't know). Read some books on the subject, but I'm still an outsider. Sometimes she lets her guard down and appears to be closer, but doesn't last very long. My favorite is when she opens the door for her mother, then slides in back of her and lets the door slam in my face. She says I make her feel uncomfortable, but won't tell me why. Hmmm, I feel uncomfortable too, but I KNOW why. Doesn't like anything about me, just because I am me, although, before wedding 17 months ago, both she and her sister were all for it. She doesn't like sharing her mother with me even though I have told her she can have all the time she needs alone with her mother whenever she wants. I don't let her know that it does bother me, because I am not going to give her that much power.