Could it happen
BM is saying she's getting a new attorney and taking us back to court to get off supervised visitation, do you think it will happen..
1. New CO was order in September 2014, she was given 4 hrs every other Saturday at a parenting time center and 1 Saturday overnight if her mom is in town to supervise. She has never even enrolled at the parenting time center and has had 2 overnights since September.
2. She was order to pay CS, we have never seen a dime.
3. She has no job, no home of her own, no car and no driver's license
Please let me know what you think
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NO... I've kinda followed
NO...
I've kinda followed your story and I'm pretty sure she is talking out her a$$ with her plans.
But hey, I'm glad she set her goals high hopefully it doesn't hurt to much when she falls flat on her face...
When she called my DH today
When she called my DH today she was trying to get him to change our holiday plans this weekend so she could see the kids with her sister, which her sister isn't on the approved list to supervise. She also told DH it's really up to him to allow her to see the kids unsupervised and that's when he laid into her, he said she was tearing her eyes out and trying to get him to feel sorry for her. That's when he told her if she had been the mom she should have been we wouldn't be here and then went to explain to her that this is the first time in the kids lives that they have prefect attendance and that YSS is finally reading. I wish I could have bee a fly on the wall when he went off on her and saw her reaction. Sadly she probably really didn't care and just cried fake tears.
I had a feeling, threats all
I had a feeling, threats all empty threats to manipulate and abuse and scare DH into giving her what she wanted...
*I hate the fake tears, every time BM pulls that my DH turns into mush & gives in*
Although visitation and CS
Although visitation and CS are considered separately, I do not think there is a court that will switch custody to a parent in arrears without serious problems evidenced at the other house. Any change requires demonstrating a change in circumstances...in other words, maybe if she was completing her supervised visits regularly and showing commitment - the court is not going to rip children out of a home where they are showing good development and place them with a parent who cannot show enough interest to even visit.
I would tell her to bring it on, then laugh in her face.
I highly doubt it! Didn't she
I highly doubt it! Didn't she miss a lot of her visits?
That CO was put in not too long ago.. I don't really see a judge changing it that soon, especially under those circumstances.
And there usually has to be a significant change of something for a CO or visitation to be changed.
I wouldn't worry about it too much, I know, easier said than done. She has nothing. Our BM pulls the same crap.
And IF she does take you to court, that will give you and DH an opportunity to add things as the phone call times and possibly even drug screens.
DH's response should be
DH's response should be "Please DO take me to court. I will enjoy watching the judge piss himself laughing while he rips you a new one".
LOL...I like that one. BM's
LOL...I like that one. BM's other favorite line is "Take me to court" and I told DH next she says that tell her "Been there done that and that's why I have sole custody"