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Cake and eat it too!!!

kaikicking's picture

Submitted by kaikicking on Tue, 03/05/2013 - 4:57pm

DH skids (2 girls) hate me. The one refuses to come over and the other comes and was very disrespectful on her last visit. So I called her on it and now she doesn't want to come back over which is ok with me...but now when he goes to visit skids he wans to take our dd and I am not feeling that at all. They made a choice let them live with it. I think it is ridiculous to think our dd can go somewhere that I am not allowed.

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RedWingsFan's picture

Submitted by RedWingsFan on Tue, 03/05/2013 - 5:03pm

I wouldn't allow that either. This has nothing to do with DD, but everything to do with SD's bad behavior. If you're not going, your DD should not be going either. My two pennies worth

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Submitted by kaikicking on Tue, 03/05/2013 - 5:54pm

One would think but other sd is 21 and still wants daddy daughter time, which still is fine just leave my dd out of it.

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Submitted by steppystep on Wed, 03/06/2013 - 6:27am

"I think it is ridiculous to think our dd can go somewhere that I am not allowed."

Well if stepkids can go somewhere their mother is not allowed, then it's the same for your kid, right?

kaikicking's picture

Submitted by kaikicking on Wed, 03/06/2013 - 3:05pm

Not exactly. Their mother is more than welcome in our home as long as it is for a reason ie bday party, graduation party, prom send off, etc. I don't see the point in her coming over for the weekend not that she isn't allowed the question would be why? I think you are comparing apples to oranges. But okay, the fact that I am not allowed in itself is not the reason but the fact I am not allowed because they don't like me is the reason why my chikd doesn't need to go.

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Submitted by oldone on Sat, 03/09/2013 - 8:05pm

NEVER EVER EVER allow your bio child to go spend time with anyone (related or not) who hates you.

That's easy.