Bi polar drug addict SS21 moves back into town tomorrow and as expected the manipulation has already started. SS21 calls only when he wants something and of course he calls because he "really needs" his surfboard and wet suit. WTF! That is what your priority is coming back - going surfing, not looking for job!

Anyway DH tells SS21 he will bring the stuff to his office and his enabling BM can pick it up there. I am all smiles thinking of that bitch trying to put a surfboard in her convertible. SS21 starts in with hinting about other stuff he needs. DH does not respond - just mentioned that maybe when SS21 is back in town they can meet for lunch.

DH is saying all the right things - focus is on marriage and his business. That's it. He wants me to kick his ass if he starts letting SS21 get to him. I reminded him I tried doing that last fall and he just got mad at me. He said to be patient with him and of course I will.

So I will just continue to point out that SS21 is still a MOOCH and he only wants $ from DH. I stick to my resolve that I will have nothing to do with the skid until he is self supporting, starts paying us back and stops grubbing $ from us. I bet if you take $ off the table I am sure we will not hear from the skid.

DH seems ok with this, although sad and disappointed.