SD13 is moving with us.

I hope I don't regret this and I suspect I will, but I have caved and told my DH I would try AGAIN to deal with SD13. IF her mother will let her go (and it looks like BM is not planning to fight it) SD13 will be moving to my hometown with us in the spring.

Once again I could've got rid of her but I couldn't do it. Sometimes I HATE having a conscience.

But at least I will be on MY home turf. No more going out in this small town and running in to BM and BM's minions. I can escape to my mother's if need be, so I am still looking forward to going home.

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Oh boy, I don't envy you what

Oh boy, I don't envy you what so ever. Hopefully DH will NOT parent by guilt!! But we all know that usually is a PIPE dream.

This is the same age my SD

This is the same age my SD was when she came to live with us. It was her choice and it's been a little bumpy here and there but in my heart I KNOW that it was the best thing for her. And that's enough for me to make it through the tough times.

Good luck!

When hubby and I moved back

When hubby and I moved back to our home state, SD, 11 at the time came to live with us. I REALLY wanted her to stay with her mom, but that did not happen. I was not trilled but I have my child with me so I can't tell him he can't have his child. And his ex is a full on nut!!!

Not living in the same town as BM has been a god send!!! It is so much better than it was. Not all peaches and cream...but so much less drama than before.

I hope it goes well....I hope you have more peaceful days then stressed filled days.