I understand the saying I can say something bad about someone in my family but no better else better or ill kill their ass. But this morning was not the right time- I told my H the same thing he told me word for word but I was wrong how the hell is that? So if it comes from your mouth its right but from mine its wrong? I told him I have gone though to much I'm not doing it with him. I said remember I'm on your side! When he does that I feel like he is teaming up with BM and I'm the bad guy! Grrrrr! He doesn't do it a lot or even often but when he does it cuts deep. What do I do?