Quick recap of current situation, SD11 announced a couple weeks ago she wants to move in after finding out BF and I are pregnant.  Her reason, her phone works better here. I'm sure thats not the only reason, but that's only one she gave.  She currently lives with BF mom. BF dad died over a year ago, so granny has wanted SD there and SD has had no issues there until recently.  Well her moving in with us has been put on hold for the moment. However SS24 and his BM think SD should be here and not with granny because granny doesnt have the patience because SD does nothing for herself.  Anyway, SS called my BF the other day and had the plan that his mom and him had talked about where SD needs to be here and I can take her to parks and keep her from getting bored etc.  I cringed when I heard this. However I'm not surprised since we found out were pregnant. SS mom and my BF have not been together for over 20 years but she is still close to his mom. We get along fine until she forgets her place in MY relationship. Also granny found a text that SD wrote that said she didnt want to live with granny or her dad, she was mad and probably had been made to do something.  

So last night granny called BF and said your daughter wantss to come over this weekend. ( find out couple min later she had gotten phone taken away ) so that could be reason she wanted to leave grans  Well BF said he was working Saturday but he might get her Sunday.  So here is my problem with that, I haven't seen my family since February and had made plans to go see them Sunday. So BF invited his mom and kid also. Now I planned on spending time with my mom who is on oxygen w/COPD and I rarely get to talk to because of her phone service. Well insert his mom, who calls everyday im not kidding, and she is going deaf so she talks over people who are talking because she can't hear. Basically she makes is very hard to visit anybody else, monopolizes conversation etc.   iSelfish of me to want 1 day to just see my family? His is around all the time.. Also I'm afraid he will want to keep her into the week since he didnt get her all weekend. Which means I get to watch her.  Sorry for the long post, just needed to vent.