So far so good, this past week had its downs, but it was pretty good. I've been focussing more on myself and started not taking bs all the time. My ML finally saw what a slob her son truly is and finally i know that if she says something i will not keep quiet like i used to, bottom line is , its all her fault!!
Being an enabler is not part of being a mother, i know her heart is in a good place, but by protecting her cub she is creating friction with the rest of her family. before, this wasn't even an issue, but as time goes by, as i became more and more aware of their personalities and similar behaviours i started seeing who was at fault here.
Now i can finally start fighting this battle with the right tools, mind you, i am not keen on arguing without arguments, therefore i feel like I've got this covered.
Let's see how this all turns out!!
I'm only putting up with this because i've been through much, much worse...it feels nice to ent and write a little bit, get an outside perspective from it all...my problems seem less important now, i can finally look at them objectively and know what to do...
Justice should prevail...:)