So, for the longest time (don't ask me WHY), BM has been getting the same amount for CS - even AFTER FDH's family business burnt down and they had to rebuild (which in turn caused him to take a pay cut). She's been getting the same amount even though her oldest daughter (SD11) does not live at home (due to the hostile environment at home, she's had to move in with her grandfather, BM's dad);and I doubt she's giving her dad SD11's portion of CS even though she tells FDH she is (but you can never take BM's for their word). AND to top it all off, she's gotten over $15K from the gov't to "help her with SS10's ADHD" - which of course, is all gone by now thanks to her shopping spree! - yet she's always crying to FDH that she's broke!

Well, just this morning, FDH met with his lawyer to (FINALLY) have SD11 (not his bio, BTW) dropped from the CS - we haven't seen her in over a year and they have her calling FDH by his first name. AND! He's having the total amount of CS LOWERED - his tax returns show a significant decrease in his yearly income since the last time they checked it So begins the lengthy process of have the CAS info released to the lawyer so he can proceed with taking the whole shebang to court

I can't even begin to explain how glad I am that it's all finally coming together. All BM cares about is the money and she spends it like the end of the world is coming. Then she has the balls to complain/yell/cuss at FDH that she's broke, like it's all HIS fault that she spends the money on a new 3DTV (they don't even have CABLE! It was cut off due to NON-PAYMENT!) instead of FOOD! And we know she hordes SD11's CS for herself instead of giving it to her dad who is basically raising her daughter for her! She's just disgusting when it comes to "managing" her funds. OH! And not to mention the hundreds of new pets they get every week! (We should get the Humane Society over there too!)

I just wish I could see the look on her face when she opens up that (court order/subpeona/whatever legal papers they serve her). THAT would be a Kodak moment for SURE! FDH has been threatening to lower CS all year, but she never figured he'd go through with it LOL She's been thinking she's living the high life over there in her low-rate trash hole of a home. Well, she better start saving up her money, because she'll need it if she wants to fight him in court!