BM finally set up another appointment with her supervised visits after paying for her bad check that she wrote them a month ago. When DH takes SD to visit BM, DH makes sure that SD brings with her all her school work that she has done since the last time BM saw SD. He wants BM to be informed about what/how SD is doing in all aspects of her life.

This time, SD texts DH from the visits place and tells him that her moms wants to keep ALL of her school work. No reason given. DH told SD that is fine, just bring back all the math work so they can continue to practice(SD is struggling badly in math and DH is trying his hardest to help..BM has let it go on for too long, without DH knowing)

So, I know in my heart that BM isn't keeping this school work for sentimental value, because in the past 2 1/2 months that DH has had custody, BM has called SD maybe 4 times and didn't even send a birthday card or call SD on her birthday and besides the fact BM didn't even attempt to show up to court to fight for her daughter. Although, BM did bring SD a couple of gifts yesterday at their visit.
I read the birthday card BM gave to SD. It talks about how sorry BM is "for making bad choices in her life" and that she PROMISES that NEXT YEAR, SD will NOT be in "this predicament."

I have a feeling BM is keeping the school work for alterior motives. But it doesn't make sense because the school work is all reading and writing, which is above grade level standards. I could understand if the work was bad and BM was using it against DH, but it's not.

Maybe I'm just looking for something thats not there.