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Submitted by Laur15 on Mon, 05/13/2019 - 7:26pm

i have been with bf from 4 yrs, from the start he told me all about his kids. His youngest kid and I use to be the closet. But I CAN NOT stand him. I don’t like being around him, talking to him or doing anything for him. He is a evil little brat. He needs to grow up. He is so disrespectful, never listens, causes fight with his siblingings. Everyone is the house try’s to avoid him. His dads think we are all picking on him or blames me for it. Everyone is just tried of his behavior. On this dads weekends I try to pick up extra workshifts or say I don’t feel good and stay in my room. 

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Clipper's picture

Submitted by Clipper on Mon, 05/13/2019 - 9:42pm

I feel your pain and stay in my bedroom quite a bit.  Now I just started to come out but they act like they don't see me.

 

It's tough

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Submitted by shamds on Tue, 05/14/2019 - 7:17am

But your bf blames you for his behaviour. This is when you say ss is responsible for his actions and treatment of others, not other people..

i used to stay in one of our spare rooms when ss was here on university breaks but now me and our2 toddlers stay in the main living areas. No way i’ll give him satisfaction of making me feel so uncomfortable and confined to a bedroom... 

i maintain and care for this house as the sahm and housewife, ss is more like a guest so i go about my day as usual. I took that power back from him... i do not feel compelled or bullied into activities with skids. 

4.5 yrs of marriage and 2 kids with my husband and ss referred to me as a stranger why he couldn’t acknowledge me. His dad was furious at him for saying that.... he still doesn’t acknowledge me but i ignore him. He usually when inlaws are over suddenly talks to me asking where stuff is. 2 years plus he hasn’t said anything to me. I feel like when the next family gathering is on and he fakes a conversation with me that i’ll respond with “oh we’re talking now??” He’ll just stare at me confused

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Submitted by tankh21 on Tue, 05/14/2019 - 7:21am

You have a BF problem not a kid problem. It is your BF's responsibility as a parent to make sure his kid learns basic things in life. The kid is only 4 years old you have a lot of misery ahead of you if you want to stay in your BF's life. Talk to him about how you feel or disengage if you want to stay with this guy.

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Submitted by Sweetpea531 on Tue, 05/14/2019 - 5:46pm

I feel ya. I hate going home at times when I know she is there. We have her full time and I either play video games or his in my room. Stay strong. 

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Submitted by Sweetpea531 on Tue, 05/14/2019 - 5:46pm

I feel ya. I hate going home at times when I know she is there. We have her full time and I either play video games or his in my room. Stay strong.