It's like the child does not have any sense at all. Is it really too much to ask that a nearly 6 year old child realize if their clothes are wet they need to change their clothes instead of just hopping in the car to head out?

I mean really. Am I being unreasonable here?

DD and SD were playing outside in the snow. When they came in I told SD it was time to get ready to go to BMs house and she says OK and starts getting read. As she is putting her boots on I look over and her pants are soaked, I mean SOAKED, from mid thigh down. Ummm.....you need to change your pants. She gives me the poutty lip quiver and says "okay". I ask if her socks are wet and she says no. If your pants are that soaked your socks must be too. Feel them. Yep, they're soaked too. I tell her she needs dry pants and socks. Comes back out and starts putting her boots on. I ask if her boots are wet. She says no. If your socks are wet that means your boots are wet. Feel them. So she feels, yeah, they're wet too. I tell her she can't wear them, she needs to find other shoes to wear. We have a gigantic shoe rack with all our shoes on it and she just stands there staring at it dumbly like she is waiting for someone to hand her a pair of shoes to wear. DD finally handed her a pair of boots and we get in the car. I ask her if she has her hat and mittens and she says yes. I ask if her mittens are on her hands and she says yes then I happen to notice her reaching across the seat for something and she is grabbing her mittens. I just asked you if they were on your hands and you said yes but they aren't. Why did you lie. Got the standard I don't know shrug.

Dear god, I need a break. Seriously, does ADHD make kids acts like this? Is that what is causing this or is it something else?