Countdown (Cont. Pt. 7) Thanksgiving w/ Disneyland Dad
Still haven't told him (holding the line)
Downside of moving out after the holidays is having to figure out how to handle the holiday.
First he claims his kids will be going out of town with their mother (and I felt relieved to not have to deal with the territory invasion x3) but in typical Disneyland fashion he "forgets" that he is off Thursday, his spawns aren't leaving until Friday, and knowing his scattered planning I won't know anything until 2 hrs before he picks them up so I may end having to deal with triple territory invasion one more time.
Then in denial Disneyland dad is not only recommending seeing his family but also seeing mine AND planning for Christmas AND probably going to try to make me wear that ring in front of his family
FML
IDK how many lies I have to spin to get out of some or all of this
I wish my employers offices could call me in to work (but they're closed)
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Oh, Hon!
Oh, Hon!
What a tangled web we weave, 'eh what? You are such a straightforward gal that it must be very stressful to keep all those balls in the air. Just keep reminding yourself that you're almost free....
Sing with me
"I'll be gone for Christ-mas"
"You have pissed off meeeeeee"
"Please just go...with brats in tow"
"No presents will there beeeeee"
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Beautiful, TT! HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!
Beautiful!
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!
Employers call you in
Who says they have to be open to call you in? Just say "duty calls" and reserve a nice hotel room.
Time for a positive Covid
Time for a positive Covid test!
I was thinking the same thing
I was thinking the same thing!!!!
This would be a great time for COVID
Start Making Your List
Work called! (and as Thinkthrice said, get a hotel.)
Covid Positive (afterwards, oops...false negative.)
Migraine (scream that the lights be turned off)
Stomach Virus (he's not going in the bathroom with you and you can make gagging sounds).
Make that list...think of more...pick one...and follow through!
Best to you...I can't wait til you post, "I'm OUT!"
I'm sorry
I'm sorry
This is f*cking hilarious!!!
Im crying laughing
While In Denial Disneyland dad is singing Whitney Houston in the shower. After he cooked for p*ssy. I paid him with money not with seggs. Doing like Charlie Sheen and paying him to leave me alone.
As I'm drifting off to sleep
As I'm drifting off to sleep I get hit with
"oh those kids asking if they can come over tomorrow "
Typical ... from im not seeing my kids this weekend to oh they want to come over
Sure! Last minute allow your kids to do whatever the hell they want to do. Can't wait till I don't have to deal with his last minute scheduling, his kid-led Disneyland zoo, and the weekly territory invasion
Book a suite at a lux hotel that has a TG food event.
You and DD do your own thing.
No explanations other than this is a holiday you want just with YOUR kid.
"Lose" the ring. If you feel compelled to return it, stick it behind an alarm clock or on the floor behind a night stand in the BR. Then tell him the last time you saw it was in X location and to check behind some piece of furniture. After you have left.
Be happy
It will all be over soon. You know now that nothing has changed. BM is taking her kids away, She needs time off from kids before the. Trip
She needs time off from kids
Yeah that's what it sounds like.
He ALWAYS does this shit. Claims there will be a skid-free break then last minute picks them up anyways. Like just say "I'm so enmeshed with my kids that my 24/7 B. Beck n Call service/pinging them multiple times a day/school pickups during exwife time/ and taking exwifes holidays is not enough and so f*ck the court ordered organized schedule I'll randomly pick them up on a whim when it's convenient for me, those kids, and the breeder whether you like it or not"
Im just glad I'll have time off from them these people too ... permanently.
Weekly visits, every holiday, people with court orders they don't use, sloppy schedules, in-home skid takeovers, manipulative conniving ex breeder lurking n waiting to use her kids as tools for relationship destruction ... is NOT how I want to spend the remaining 7+ years of my life
Like what part of Thanksgiving is YOUR holiday and Christmas is Dude's holiday is not registering into her thick skull?!?
People who leave their balls in the X's control are pathetic.
They have no business in any relationship after getting neutered in the failed family demise process.
Ever.
It seemingly never ends. When the kids are minors, these types whether they are daddy o mommy is the beck and call bitch. When the kids are adults, they are the ATM and rescue service. For the spawn and for the poor failed family breeding partner choice.
For some reason these men without testicles deify that BM is the mother of their children even when BM is the succubus demon harpy from hell. For women with the same affliction, BioDad is deified as the father of their children even when daddy is an incubus demon asshole from hell. It seems that women do not suffer as frequently as men do from this affliction.
Second and subsequent marriages fail far more than half the time.
Despite our common sense expectations, according to demographic data, the divorce rate for subsequent marriages is, in fact, significantly higher than that of first marriages—65%, nearly two out of three!
Far too often these types of people (men or women) sacrifice themselves, their children, and any new mate on the alter of martyrdom to their poor choice in breeding partners from their failed family.
Even when the SParent is in their first marriage, their mate who brings baggage, is on a subsequent marriage. IMHO even when the breeder was not married to their X, the outcome of a follow up relationship is no better than if they were married.
The odds, are not good.
Far too many "good" people cater to their X at the expense of their mate and the demise of yet another marriage. We all go into a marriage high on the love story and that we can make it work.
I wish that were the case far more often than it is.
KISS, follow the damned CO. If there is no CO, get one. NO! is the answer to any "hep me!" whiney bullshit from the X. Kids do what they are told when they are told to do it. Complication drives failure of the relationship and failed outcome for the kids.
All IMHO of course.
Enjoy your do-over and living well Lilly.
^^^THIS was THE major demise
^^^THIS was THE major demise of our relationship
No new court order and ex-wife remotely running the show through her spawns
Dude too oblivious (and when he does temporarily come to his senses) and too p*ssy to change this sh*tshow dynamic.
I refuse to marry/procreate/deal long-term with any man who runs/enables his ex to run a 24-7 B. Beck n Call service!!!