DH's birthday is coming up. He sent me a text wanting his "special Birthday present" I text him back stating that I was angry with him and that we needed to have a talk and maybe think about counseling. He text me on his birthday saying he feels old and that "special Birthday present" would make him feel young or at least better. I text him back "lol nice try but that wasn't going to work".
I have been pretty much disengaging in both him and his daughter. SD26 needs to get the h3ll out of our house. Last fall I had taken my birthday off from work. I went to the grocery store then came back home and was putting the groceries away when I discovered the SD put a big a$$ wine bottle in one of the refrigerator shelves. Which that by itself would not have been a problem but she cracked the shelf in the process. There were a few other things that had happened that week also. I was bitching at her about putting dirty dishes in the clean dishwasher or eating the majority of the left overs and leaving in a big ass dish that could have been transferred to a smaller dish or if it was so small of a serving the remainder could have been just thrown away. Just stupid everyday $hit...right. So DH is at work and I text him that I was done with her $hit and she needed to move out. So I am sitting at the table and hear her phone text tone going off. They, DH and She were texting back and forth. Then her phone rings and I hear her whining "I don't know...I didn't do anything" So I left the house. Before I start my car I text DH and told him that if he had any questions he should have texted or call me not SD. So he tried several time calling me and I just ignored him. Later he apologized and I just let him know the damage was already done. So now 6 month later he still doesn't get it. She need out of the house period. And he isn't getting none until she is gone lol.