Today was a blah day.
I changed my hph# and utilized my call screening, making it impossible for BM to contact our house. Told DH and was told that "by law" BM has to be able to contact him. I let him know that "by law" in our house my phone will not ring 17 times in one weekend and my caller ID show BM calling once again. First to tell about a science project that we needed to get to the school for SS (too irresponsible to turn it in himself in class on Friday)then to ask how turning in the late work went! Stupid!! It isn't going to happen again, if SS doesnt turn in work and the teacher isn't diplomatic enough to notify both parents, then the work isn't getting turned in and I WIL NOT put up with my phone ringing like that again.
DH is very mad that I chg the #. Then he got even more P's when I told him that when he goes to the mediator it is time to lay down the law. Medical bills are piling up for SS (BM likes to sign the financial agreement and then list DH as the Gaurantor)and this fight is over! I am not going to live with an 11 year old who wont shower, brush his teeth, lies about EVERYTHING, wont do his homework which sets a bad example for my other 2 girls, has an attitude bigger than his whole 65 pd body-Thats right! He is almost 5 foot tall and weighs only 65 ibs! He still needs a booster seat
I do not want custody like I thought I did-letting him come live here I might as well invite BM over for dinner and tell her she can come over and visit any time she wants. SS has been with her for 2 years now listening to a variety of BS about myself, my daughters and DH. He has begun refusing to go to his BM house and has even dared her to call the cops to come get him! I will not have the police here in front of my 6 year old! This is stupid and there IS an end in sight. Give these bitches what they want-full custody! The pure delight of seeing your child fail and knowing you are responsible and you can't blame anyone else anymore bc you have him on all school nights! The pure joy of seeing your child turn against you bc they too know you are full of crap!
Sleep better on all those nights with visions of CS checks dancing through your head! The whole $11.71/week that you get for being a "sahm" and not working for the past 6 years! Look at yourself in the mirror and tell yourself you cant stand living in your parents basement at the age of 30 and drag that boy along with you from man to man!! Picture me taking him fun places during our visits instead of griping at him about all his failures! Imagine me bonding with him as a FRIEND, something parents can't always be to their kids, but sometimes just what the kids need!
Picture me living with your X! He is now the man you wished he had been all along! Soon he will be making very good money and I will be done with school!!! Realize that your prediction never came true! The Judge didn't tell us to stop having children that we can't afford-seriously, I have one from a previous boyfriend when I was 22 and we have one together who is 16 mo and I have my tubes tied as of last Monday no more babies for me Sad, but I will be starting a career and I only have one set of arms. No one told us how much we suck for buying SS a DS even though you can't afford it on your Cinderella allowance (her parents pay her $500/mo for doing chores) ahahahah No one told my Hubby what a terrible person he is and no one told me how stupid I am!! Your son did tell me that he heard YOU say i am a Nasty Slut and a Bitch!!! Thanks! It brightened my day also when he told me you want to have a needle fight with me! Yeah!!
I hope it feels even better knowing that you can go ahead and have all this custody BS but you will have to give up a few of those nights with your new man-oh wait is that your 6th or 7th sex partner in the last 2 years!!??ahahahah I am so sick of this woman!!!!!!!
I told him it is over either with that situation or with us and I got the usual "If you cant take it get out." Shit. If my 6 year old didn't love him and I didn't put my kids before my own desires I would have a long time ago! Since then I have been on a peace mission!

So, today I got a new ph# and finally got my H on the same page as me! He finally agreed to do this a different way and realize fighting isnt the answer!! We can use this mediation as a chance to get some of the things accomplished that need to be-like specific uninsured medical costs for her, order her to put him in summer school and order her to pay for everything from now on-no more SS coming over asking for lunch $$ or for us to take him for a haircut! He can look like Sonic Im still not paying!
I'm like Cruela! No more funding for the terrorists!!
I have/am there too with the blinds for the kitchen! SS has a closet full of clothes bc we are so afraid he will feel not wanted-my daughter doesnt have half the crap! I guess her part of the tax check money went to the attorney for the SS!!!!