Yesterday was actually awesome. Yep. SD was nice and normal all day, pleasant, helpful, the whole nine yards. We ended up doing a collage project for DH"s B's kids with old photos and other papers of late B's. I ended up paying for most of it...but it was "priceless." Even baby acted normal, not like a raging monster. Do these people need ass-chewings? Or is it the dysfunctional cycle--anger then calm, anger, then calm? I can't stand that and neither can DH.

So the plan today was to take her to meet ex-SIL (B's ex and mother of his kids) later today. This saves us about 2 hours of travel to their house, as they are going to an event fairly close to us.

At 6 a.m. (this is happening every day with some thought about our dear visitors) I woke up with the thought "car seat.' Now ex-SIL is one of those welfare BMs who milk the system and use their kids as pawns (in this case with the in-laws who of course want to see dead B's kids). Our side pays for EVERYTHING. She is a lier, unreliable, stupid...

SD did not think to ask her to bring one. We are using one of my friend's, and I am not leaving it with ex-SIL. So can we get in touch with ex-SIL this morning? Of course not. And when DH brought issue up with SD, she flipped out AGAIN, yelling at him and accusing HIM of flipping out. She is so disrespectful. She blew it by not lining up a seat for her kid. So another 3 days of feeding them and being trapped because 1) she won't go anywhere on her own and 2) we can't get any work done with her here?

NEVER AGAIN! And thank God she will not ever be moving in with us (over my dead body and DH knows it and concurs).

Updated: While DH was at store, heard SD talking to SIL1, DH's narcissist who is so jealous of me and him...talking about how changing the ticket would be $150....so she was bitching out her Dad (and probably me) to this woman...do ya believe it? I called DH and told him.