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Hi ladies! Its been a long while since I have been on this site. Things are going really well between BF and I =). I have a question though that I need some help with. My BF has a 3 year old daughter and 6 year old son. I believe both have been subject to PAS. So here is the issue. When its time for BFs scheduled visit he normally picks them up from daycare. Normally both kids are fine. Sometimes SS6 tells BF that he doesn't want to go home with him and that he hates him SD3 is fine leaving DC. Now if it comes down to BF having to pick them up from his ex its a whole other issue SD3 cries and says she doesn't want to go and cry's until BF gets her in the car and mom is our of sight. SS6 says I hate you Dad I don't like your house. Tonight was suppose to be the start of BFs weekend with the kids but because of working late he ended up having to go to the EX house to get the kids. SD3 was sick and was in the house but SS6 came out and said I hate you I don't want to go to your house. This happens anytime that BF gets the kid from EX. Of course he is extermly upset and said he is tired of dealing with this. So my question is do we keep forcing the kids to come over or let it go.

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Thank you for the reassurance. Thats what I want to do I make them come over. I was thinking the same thing about when they get a little older they dont have to come over whatever. Same thing happens here that happens at your house. SS6 doesnt like it hear because he cant watch TV all day eat fast food and be a lazy puke Smile