Sunday freakin night...you could not have come any sooner!
Thank goodness I survived the weekend. But just barely. I was kinda ok friday night, had an anxiety attack on saturday and a bitch fit today. and the DEVIL SPAWN has now been returned to its rightful owner.
Why is it that whenever my SS5 comes over my BS's always go crazy and think they arent gonna get into trouble. I cant take that crap. I am pretty sure its because SS gets away with murder and they think they can too. Well, they all got it from hubby Saturday night. They had attiudes, and they were definitely checked!
My kids usually behave and are very helpful, until SS's weekend comes around. Then its like problem child x3.
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Hear ya sister! My sks are
Hear ya sister! My sks are the same way sd lived her and ss lived with bm and when ss came for visit sd would act like a total ass to. Us when she is around her brother. I see it all the time. Ss moved back in with us three weeks ago the first week was hell. Now ss left to go back to bm tonight.{another story see my post update} my point is that I can deam with one at a time not both. When kids get together they try to outd eachother and there brains go on vacation!
How does your DH handle them?
How does your DH handle them? How long do you think im gonna have to deal with it??lol I would think at some point they would grow out of this BS.
Unfortunitly for me I do most
Unfortunitly for me I do most of the perenting in this house dh ignors most of it. But when he has had enought he tells them to go to there rooms. Sometimes it is jsut crazy and I just go to my room and shut the door so my dh has to deal with it. The differences is neather of hem are my kids. The good news is the newness of having it happen on a regular basis it will evenualy even out and thing will calm down. I donot know what he ages of the kids you are dealing with but I would imagin as they get older it will mellow out. The one thing that keeps me saine some times is knowing the fact that "it is only temporary!" They will turn older and MOVE OUT! Lol
Unfortunitly for me I do most
Unfortunitly for me I do most of the perenting in this house dh ignors most of it. But when he has had enought he tells them to go to there rooms. Sometimes it is jsut crazy and I just go to my room and shut the door so my dh has to deal with it. The differences is neather of hem are my kids. The good news is the newness of having it happen on a regular basis it will evenualy even out and thing will calm down. I donot know what he ages of the kids you are dealing with but I would imagin as they get older it will mellow out. The one thing that keeps me saine some times is knowing the fact that "it is only temporary!" They will turn older and MOVE OUT! Lol
Unfortunitly for me I do most
Unfortunitly for me I do most of the perenting in this house dh ignors most of it. But when he has had enought he tells them to go to there rooms. Sometimes it is jsut crazy and I just go to my room and shut the door so my dh has to deal with it. The differences is neather of hem are my kids. The good news is the newness of having it happen on a regular basis it will evenualy even out and thing will calm down. I donot know what he ages of the kids you are dealing with but I would imagin as they get older it will mellow out. The one thing that keeps me saine some times is knowing the fact that "it is only temporary!" They will turn older and MOVE OUT! Lol
lol. Yes, believe me I am
lol. Yes, believe me I am counting down the days til my SS is 18. I feel bad to say that but Im just being raw. I have a 4 month old, 5 yr old and 7 yr old. And My ss is 5 also. His mom called my hubby at work this morning to bitch about the weekend and what had happened as far as the ss getting in trouble. I guess he went back and cried and said we were all mean to him, that my boys were telling him mean things and that she didnt appreciate it. Her kid is literally the ring leader of the chaos. His nickname is Monkey and he definitely lives up to it. He told her everything that had happened and told her that he may get away with everything over there, but he will get disciplined at our house which is good. I am proud he stood up to her. He does help with the kids and tried to keep SS under control when he is here but dad had work this weekend and I got stuck with SS and my kids. Its not just me that feels the relief when SS goes home. My hubby admitted to me last night that he gets so stressed out when his kid comes over. He said Its like he misses him during the days hes not here but as soon as he picks him up friday night he already wishes it was sunday. It has alot to do with the kids mom. I know everyone has complaints about the bio mom, but this one really is a case! And her son acts JUST LIKE HER!!!
"Thank goodness I survived
"Thank goodness I survived the weekend. But just barely. I was kinda ok friday night, had an anxiety attack on saturday and a bitch fit today. and the DEVIL SPAWN has now been returned to its rightful owner. "
ROFL...same here-I had a couple panic attacks Fri/Sat am-had severe anxiety all day Saturday, blogged about it Sunday... I'm so glad she went home yesterday-in fact I got so worked up i'm having the "she's not welcome in my home anymore" speech tonight w/the bf
Don't care what the repercussions are honestly.
lol..wow pretty brave. Ive
lol..wow pretty brave. Ive thought about having that speech with him, and even had the conversation OUT LOUD to myself, lol. But i cant bring myself to actually do it. I just beg him to take skid to his grandmas for the weekend as often as I can.
Yeah, its pretty sad how tense we get. My anxiety was manifesting itself physically and I threw up several times. Im sure my hubby thought it was something I ate, I know it wasnt..Ive been like that before.