I am new to this site but after reading some posts I think this may be what I need. I have a DH who has 1 daughter8 and 1 son(6), with 2 different women. Never married to either of them...We got married and now have a daughter together 8 months old. I didn't have time to adjust to being a new mom because I had SS all day and night because BM went to school to do hair. We used to not get along with SS's BM but now the table have turned and we really do not get along with SD's BM. I can't stand the way she raises SD and tries to dictate how we will raise SD at our home. An issue came up recently about BM being engaged, again, for the 2nd time this year (to a different guy) and how the last breakup was really hard on SD. BM laughed and told DH that he shouldn't be giving parenting advice to her. I am at my wits end and can not stand SD's BM! She is a hypocrite and ruining SD's future relationships with boys. She is headed down the road to become another statistic and I refuse to be a grandma in my 30's! :jawdrop: