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My step kids are manipulating

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Submitted by Mandym1017 on Sun, 09/08/2019 - 6:34pm

I have two step daughters ages 13 and 18. For the last five years they are used by their mother to manipulate their dad. I’m so sick of it. Bonding with these two is impossible. I don’t want to lose my husband but he’s so dad blind. 

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Chmmy's picture

Submitted by Chmmy on Sun, 09/08/2019 - 6:50pm

That's what BMs do. I put a stop to some of the manipulation but the results are i have bad relationship with the skids & DH.

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Submitted by strugglingSM on Mon, 09/09/2019 - 5:35am

Both of my SSs are manipulative, one more than the other. BM also uses them as pawns and bargaining chips, particularly when it comes to DH’s family. 

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Submitted by Mcwilliams293 on Mon, 09/09/2019 - 10:49pm

My wife is mom blind to her son, he turned 20 a few months ago and is latched at the hip, calls her 10 to 15 times a day has to see her at least 6 times a week, been in his life since he was 7 or 8 and has been nothing but trouble for me. Has done everything in his power to get between his mom and I. I also am raising her now 13 yr old daughter and we have an 8 yr old daughter, wants to throw away our marriage cause I blow up when I’m left out in the cold on things does for him without my knowledge. I feel your pain!