Does anyone else have to see BM EVERYDAY??

I do. Ok maybe not every single day, but every day on our weeks. (we have 50/50 week on/week off) BM is always there after school because she has another child that goes there, and of course she waits for SD to get out so she can see her. I totally understand that, I'd want to take every moment I could to see my child, but I just don't know how to deal with seeing her EVERYDAY! When we got along it was fine, we could stand there and chat, but right now I can't stand her and it drives me crazy having to play nice! I'm somewhat mad at DH because I have to see her everyday and he doesn't! I know it's not his fault, he would go if he could, but damn I wish he could! Lol. So any advice on keeping myself from going bitch on her everyday? Sometimes she even waits by my car for me to get out! Then she talks to me all the way to the door and while we're waiting! It's like she wants to pretend everything is cool between us but it's not! I'd rather just walk up, get SD and leave! Why can't I do that?? AAAGH! Lol

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Ugh! Hatin' it for ya!

omg, I am soooo sorry for

omg, I am soooo sorry for you.. that totally sucks! My BM is an ass and she and I had it out a couple of years ago and I have hated her ever since, she recently started trying to play nice with me the rare times I have to see her and it is torture! I can't imagine having to do it EVERY day! :sick:

I don't see her everyday

I don't see her everyday right now, but when she actually had a job I did. She'd pick em up from daycare (2-3 hours after she got off work mind you) and keep em for an hour or two before they'd come back to us. Having to see her everyday was torture and infinitely worse than only having a rare Saturday night off from the kids. I only see her about 3 times per week now, which is still way too much for me, but better than it was before. Whenever she gets off her butt and gets a job again though I'm sure I'll be right back there with ya. Bleh!

Thanks for the sympathy. I

Thanks for the sympathy. I miss when I only had to see her on exchange days. (Sundays) Even worse is now she seems to have taken to shopping at the grocery store I work at! I work 20 min away from her house and my store isn't even a big name company, why does she have to come up there?? I happen to know there's a Wal Mart 2 mins from her house!