Everyday I pick up SD from school. When I have time I let her see her siblings, stepdad, whoever may have come with BM that day. BM calls DH Thurs night to complain that I didn't let her see SD. First, she DID say her hellos and give hugs before I said we needed to go. Second, I'm there to get SD, not make BM feel good, so I don't really care! DH told BM that since she calls SD at night she doesn't need a long visit after school and I don't have time to wait around. She says ok. So yesterday after school, BM gives a quick hug and kiss and we leave. I call DH saying how good BM was, to find out she already texted saying I pulled SD away again! WHAT? So I lost it and decided if she was going to "tattle" to my DH I would do the same. So I started texting with HER DH laying all her shit out! She was PISSED! Well the day ended with DH saying she is no longer allowed to call/text his cell, bc she is too invasive in our daily lives, she is only allowed to call the home phone at the agreed communication time! Yay DH!