Well I got the new phone set up yesterday and immediately sent notice of the new number to BM. When DH called to talk to SD last night he informed BM and told her that this was the phone to communicate with him now. This of course was met with resistance from BM, who says he is violating court order. Sorry, but court order doesn't say DH is to be available to BM 24/7! She has his home/work numbers, she can reach him in case of emergency. Then she promises she'll be good and not call/text him 50 times a day. Sorry, but we tried that before, only lasted a few days. She finally calmed down when she realized this WAS happening. I just hope she acts like an adult at the school today, and I just so happen to be taking a friend to a court date today, so if she follows me she'll end up at the police station! Even if she doesn't, I'll talk to them there about my options. My work is in a different city, so I don't know if they can help me with that. But a report from the other police station should help right? I hope.