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BITCHOLOGY

Mary Jane2's picture

Whenever things don't go BM’s way, she calls me a bitch. Well I couldn’t resist any longer and sent her this lovely e-mail.

BM,

BITCHOLOGY }:)

When I stand up for my beliefs, and myself you call me a BITCH :? .

When I stand up for those I love (including your kids), you call me a BITCH :? .

When I speak my mind, think my own thoughts or do things my own way, you call me a BITCH :? .

Being a BITCH means I won’t compromise what’s in my heart.
It means I live MY life MY way.
It means I won’t allow ANYONE to step on me }:) .

When I refuse to tolerate injustice and speak against it, I am defined by you as a BITCH :? .

The same thing happens when I take time for myself instead of being everyone’s maid, or when I act a little selfish such as not look after your kids when my SO is working and you can’t be bothered acting like a mother to your own children on your time.

It means I have the courage and strength to allow myself to be who I truly am and wont allow anyone else’s idea of what they think I ‘should’ be.

I am outspoken, opinionated and determined. I want what I want and there is nothing wrong with that.

So try to stomp on me, just try to douse my inner flame, try to squash every once of beauty I hold within me.

YOU WON’T SUCCEED }:)

And if that makes me a BITCH, so be it. I embrace the title and am proud to bear it Blum 3

B – BABE
I – IN
T- TOTAL
C – CONTROL OF
H – HERSELF

B – BEAUTIFUL
I – INTELLIGENT
T – TALENTED
C – CHARMING
H – HELL OF A WOMAN

B – BEAUTIFUL
I – INDIVIDUAL
T – THAT
C – CAN
H – HANDLE ‘ANYTHING’

A BITCH = A FEMALE DOG
You are right BM I am exactly like a female dog. If you step on a dogs tale it will bite you, so get the F@#k off my tail }:)

From Mary Jane

Comments

Mary Jane2's picture

Sueu2, you were very rude to me when you responded to my first blog I posted here. Please do not respond to anymore of my blogs, I'm not interested in your opinion.

halfstepmom2skids's picture

Freaking love it, i want what i want and there is NOTHING wrong with that. Almost all my life, i have denied myself what i really want. That is my new motto, and oh, get the f of my tail...I am annoying my H now with all the LOL. You should delete sue troll's post so she doesn't ruin this, that is her intent, please delete her posts.

Mary Jane2's picture

Thanks, I haven't heard back from BM yet, should be interesting.

I sometimes like to leave the posts Sueu2 writes, just to remind myself of the type of woman I don't want to become Wink

halfstepmom2skids's picture

Oh please, the only thing that woman is going to be able to say is...uh..ee.oo.rr#)..daaa...WHATEVER!lol

SoTired1's picture

That's telling BM like it really is & I'm sure you pissed her off (so kudos to you for that). Well said my dear. Wink

LizzieA's picture

What is basically says is, men love women who are confident, stick up for themselves, and expect good treatment from men, rather than doormats.

Mary Jane2's picture

I appreciate your thoughts Stepdown.

I have been an SM to her boys for 6 years now. 2 Years ago BM decided that she wanted to start to get along with me so we had a discussion that from then on we would be totally honest with eachother and call eachother out when we felt it was appropriate.

I felt that this was appropriate especially since she has said it in front of my skids.

bebbo's picture

I just love that email...

U know wat I did to mine after listening to her
Insults for two years I stomped on her hit her
So bad the next day she got on a train and moved
Another city so now she bitches around thru the
Its amazing.....u've got to show them bm who z in
Control now those days of them running the show are
Long gone I keep tellin my skids if u can't follow the
Rules of my house then uve got no business bein here
Coz she's been teaching them schemes on how to attack
Me infront of their dad so I've gotta let them know
Exactly what am made of

DaizyDuke's picture

Love it.... ought to inform her about BM'isms while you're at it!

B- Bowel
M- Movement

B- Bad
M- Mother

etc. etc. Wink

DaizyDuke's picture

ha ha me too!! I of course was referring to the ones that are so near and dear to our hearts! :sick: