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Submitted by meneran on Wed, 02/09/2011 - 6:59am

The bitch knew that we cant take the kid this week just because there are school holidays. The world doesnt stop around his free days you know.

Even though the bitch knew that, the mental torture started as early as Monday. Kid calling twice about how hes bored at home and how he wants to be with daddyyyyyyyy.

Bitch knew that normal people work 5 days a week, at least 8 hours a day.

Bitch made the kid call today to ask if she can drop him at bf's work at 1:30pm on friday, and return him after 7pm sunday. Because bitch has some things to do.

I feel like strangling the bitch.

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Submitted by Asher10 on Wed, 02/09/2011 - 7:17am

I hear you.I was just blogging about my experience with BM dropping the kid on us and DH just going along with it.I will help you strangle the bitch.

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Submitted by meneran on Wed, 02/09/2011 - 7:27am

I just dont know how to put a stop to this shit before it gets out of the hand.

It looks like the kid is missing dad.. but in reality its because she has no time to be the mother, the kid is bored and he thinks its disneyland at our place. Which is not.

How to stop this? How to in a nice way say ok this is the line. Do not cross over it.

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Submitted by Asher10 on Wed, 02/09/2011 - 7:31am

I wish I had some wisdom on this one.Dh and I stopped answering the phones and turned off the ringers when these things happened.Then when it was too late for SD to come over,he would call her back and tell her he was out all day and missed her calls.
We never did figure out how to get BM to start parenting SD so she wasn't so starved for activities and attention.

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Submitted by meneran on Wed, 02/09/2011 - 7:35am

My bf sticks to his schedule and to his word. He wont take the kid during the week, school and work stuff. Too much of a hassle. He is still sticking to eow as well. But the pressure is slowly starting to build for every weekend and i under no circumstances can survive that shit again.