but mostly it's just sad.

Has anyone else ever done this or am I the only glutton for punishment around here? Go to your favorite search engine and type any step related question.

You will more than likely get dozens and dozens of hits from forums, q&a sites, and blogs from all over the interwebz that address the exact same concern you have. Scroll through the comments. You will be like , then :jawdrop: , but mostly just .

For instance: Can my ex-wife gain access to my current wife's assets? The comments, oh the comments on all of these random websites. They are so bad that I would SWEAR these are trolls posing as BMs. They spout off every entitled BM-centric retort you could imagine.

So, yeah. I'm thinking: internet trolls. Then I remembered. There is a REASON STalk exists and there is a reason I found it. These BMs do exist and a lot of us have seen it up close and personal: the entitlement, the psychosis, the disregard for human decency. They are probably the BMs of people in here.

My only hope is that whoever posted the original question eventually googles the right phrase and lands in here. That's what I did a year and a half ago.