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Submitted by MissElphaba on Tue, 11/04/2014 - 6:13pm

Just found out I'm pregnant and it's a surprise. We've both taken precautions when we were intimate, and I was regularly bleeding etc...until a month ago, cramping and heavy bleeding. Now I find this out. 15 weeks...and now I'm so torn and confused. I love my son more than life but I don't know that this is something I can do. It's mostly financial, which adds to my bitterness with SO. I'm 26 and as much as I'd like to throw around my maturity.. I need some support...

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Submitted by MissElphaba on Tue, 11/04/2014 - 6:27pm

Yes - they're supportive and very involved currently. My parents know - they don't think it's a good idea to add to my mix.

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Submitted by step off already on Tue, 11/04/2014 - 7:06pm

A surprise baby is scary and a huge blessing. My number three was a complete surprise. I had just opened my own business and was completely overwhelmed with my 8 month old and 2.5 year old and SURPRISE! I was pregnant.

Took a deep breath and went with it. He's 10 now and I couldn't imagine life without that little fella.

I'm a fertile myrtle. I had an issue with my birth control and keep telling DH to back off (or I'm gonna get knocked up at 41). I would freak but everything always works out.