BM quit her most recent consulting job, which had her spending half each week in NYC. She told SStwinsAandB13 NOT to tell their father, but of course they did. DH has known for two weeks that she is no longer traveling. Yet, in emails regarding day-to-day, she insists on keeping up the facade that she is still working and traveling. He is going along with it because this denial of reality (regarding how he perceives her) is the only thing keeping her tethered to sanity right now. Yuck. Whole lotta crazy!!!